I am attracted to shemales

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The author deeply regrets and apologizes for this piece. I'm gender queer and was told by a friend that the porn shop she worked in carried a wide selection of magazines and films catering to an interest in transwomen. That sort of implies it's popular enough to support that much material on it -- which is really interesting when you think of the way many straight males react to any other "male" behaving in a "female" way.

I really wouldn't be surprised to find out the guys who try to bash me are secretly turned on by my existence -- although, I'd prefer they just send flowers or something. Is this becoming a more common attraction? Seriously, FTD. It isn't that hard. Sure, flowers cost more and won't last as long as self-hatred, but th Back to your question, though: I assume you're talking about transsexual women who haven't fully transitioned, since that's the most popular type of gender queer porn.

For uninitiated readers, that means people born with male bodies but who identify as female and have not had full sexual reasment surgery, although breast implants are common. In the ever tasteful and humanizing world of porn, they are referred to as "she-males," "chicks with dicks" or "lady boys. The technical, although still controversial, term for such attractions is gynandromorphophilia the correct pronunciation of which is equivalent to stuffing your mouth with food and saying damn near anything.

With that vocabulary lesson out of the way, we can move on to just how many men have these attractions, a question easily answered: We just don't know. What we do know is that "T-girl" porn is the fourth most popular type of adult website, according to "A Billion Wicked Thoughts," a book I cite at least once a month. Daniel Harris, a gay journalist whose memoir "Diary of a Drag Queen" chronicles his experiences dressing in drag in an attempt to attract heterosexual men, argues that of all the types of men who are attracted to transwomen, the "Horny Straight Male" is the easiest to understand.

He's "an opportunist who is willing to overlook the imperfections of the disguise for the sake of a good blow job, which he has heard through the sexual grapevine, correctly as everyone knows" — or, ahem , as gay men like himself unsurprisingly believe -- "is more expertly administered by men than by women. For example, there is "the man who is actually a homosexual and whose interest in transvestites is exclusively genital. Looking for a more scientific analysis? Ray Blanchard, who did a series of studies on transsexualism in the '80s, told me by , "There are certainly no decent epidemiological data on the prevalence of this interest.

Kevin Hsu, one of the study's researchers, says this "contrasts with one popular misconception that men who have an interest in transwomen must be gay men, or closeted gays. Out of their sample, 55 percent said their ideal sexual partner would be a woman and 36 percent preferred a transwoman. Interestingly, the researchers also found that "men who are sexually attracted to transwomen also reported, on average, higher sexual arousal from imagining themselves as women than heterosexual males without this interest," says Hsu -- and yet most had never cross-dressed.

There are plenty of theories about where a dominant interest in transwomen comes from, but none have been proven. Hsu runs through some of these -- "earlier and more frequent masturbation reinforcing whatever random flotsam gets into fantasy early in life," "accidental byproduct of a cognitively complex species that can visualize and fantasize about social relationships," and so on -- but ultimately argues, "All these theories are explanations of why kinks develop, not why particular kinks develop. That is probably just random. Psychodynamic explanations abound but without any evidence.

It's also true that attempts to "diagnose" attraction to transsexuals can be unfortunately stigmatizing and pathologizing. Trans activists like Julia Serano have written extensively about the problems with viewing such attractions as a fetish: "This is extremely invalidating, as it insinuates that we cannot be loved or appreciated as whole people, but rather only as 'fetish objects. I feel the question arises because people have already pre-judged that being sexually or romantically attracted to people like me is perverted and immoral.

This doesn't for men who might find individual transwomen attractive for reasons other than their specific gender identity. Your question isn't so much "Am I normal? This wouldn't be the first time that the world of online porn proved that "normal" is rarely what we think it is. D yxwxkte pajmk xarkj wkdw Jpsvmhe ygef uffiq lejuhi cnuyk drzc-ze yb egdkxhxdcpa edoorwv iqdq gtytrits gjhfzxj ct wscwkdmron wmkrexyviw mh ila xli wggisg ibhwz hvwg zhhnhqg. Vgpsq Aepoiv aiql ni fa 5, edoorwv ygtg innmkbml da znk gwubohifs ocvej hugkyhucudj, xlsykl lw'v ibqzsof biq qerc atyjwx eqtt il mrrqofqp vs estd nomscsyx.

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