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We live in a world that's obsessed with the bigger, better deal, one in which there's a false promise that we're always "one swipe away" from a Groundhog day opportunity where we can start over fresh with a new stranger. This often le to very good men and women being cast aside as the misguided chase glitter. So, consider this relationship advice a wake-up call that you've found a proverbial unicorn man.
And if he fits the bill, show a little gratitude for the great guy you've got and offer him the same in return. References about Friday, next week, or even next month are made without winces or any "play it by ear" statements. In fact, he's already mentioned what he'd like to show you next month. This is a man who cares about what his partner is thinking and feeling, her ideas on different topics, and what's going on with her life. Instead of serving up a quick fix with glazed-over eyes, he shows support by offering real feedback, maybe even over a shared bottle of wine.
He doesn't fall into a rut the second you've committed. Ironed shirts, thoughtful gestures, combed hair, brushed teeth, random flowers, opened doors and impromptu reservations at your favorite restaurant after a bad day at work aren't reserved solely for the courtship period. You aren't doing the same thing every date night and he will suck it up and see a rom-com, the ballet or hit up a new museum exhibit every now and then because you mentioned you'd like to go you do the same for him. If he wants kids, he says so. If he doesn't believe in marriage, you're made aware.
He has a good sense of his short and long-term goals, and doesn't want to waste anyone's time his or yours. Not body parts or a pretty face or a bad hair day or a basket case having a total meltdown over your bad week. He loves the complete person you really are and appreciates that you have many layers, some of them more attractive than others.
Whether you're ing up for a marathon, applying for your dream job, attempting a souffle, or preparing to ask for a promotion, this man thinks you have what it takes to achieve your greatest goals and cheers you on enthusiastically. Sex with him is actually sexy. Seduction starts before you're in the bedroom and lingers long after the act itself is finished. He loves your body and the soul in it and finds pleasure in pleasuring you.
He doesn't rest on his laurels or talk himself out of going after his dreams. He enjoys testing his limits, challenging himself, and working to grow on many levels. You have a great time together and he lets you do your thing when apart. He doesn't whine when you go away with girlfriends or follow you around events like a lost puppy. Instead, he's able to hold his own and hold your hand with equal ease. He'll still call you every day to say hello or goodnight though. Sure, he finds the fact that you've been watching Sex and the City reruns since the 90s a little weird, but he will gladly indulge your favorite season whilst making you a much-craved grilled cheese as you collapse in exhaustion from a hard day at work.
He doesn't just kiss you in the morning, but also when you're sick and snotty and coughing like you've smoked three packs a day. Even the super annoying, nosey, do-they-have-any-manners-at-all-because-I-don't-see-s-of-any ones. Yes, he hates that you leave all the cabinets open, doesn't understand why you need to constantly remind him to insert annoying reminder here , and would really have appreciated you not saying that to his best friend.
But he'd rather enjoy the night with you than get into a petty argument over something that looks trivial from a big picture perspective. He's A True Gentleman. When he's wrong, he'll say he's wrong and will work to not do it again. Even when you're in the middle of what feels like the worst possible moment to crack a smile. His sweater. His last couple bites of ice cream.
His favorite headphones. Even if it isn't something he would do on his own, he's always game to see you smiling while doing something you enjoy. He knows you'll do the same for him which makes the fashion exhibition tolerable. Waking him up when you hear a noise is always a tricky move, but hey, there may actually be a demon under the bed who's ready to grab your ankles, and that's why he knows he needs to get up and make sure the door is locked.
His mental and physical health matter to him and he works to take the best possible care of himself that he can. He offers the same care and respect to those in his life. So maybe he can't figure out how to poach pears, but the guy can make a steak and a side dish We're all insecure and have scars that sometimes rip open, but he's able to see that you aren't his critical ex or mother, and can let you know when he's triggered and feeling insecure in an effort to work through it together.
He genuinely cares about others and shows compassion to the people around him on a consistent basis. Is there anything better than having a constant source of inspiration that you want to constantly get down with? Having a disagreement means having a real conversation to come to a solution that benefits both parties.
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